tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3497380848148392012.post5542951767411984057..comments2023-05-02T09:07:34.817-04:00Comments on Older and Weiser: Faces with the NamesOlder and Weiserhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00201486776769991800noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3497380848148392012.post-57093107893127580242012-06-22T14:05:21.297-04:002012-06-22T14:05:21.297-04:00As you should!! They seem wonderful. You are a luc...As you should!! They seem wonderful. You are a lucky, lucky man!!! Actually, you must be very special.<br /><br />D- thank you so much for the photo it's great :) And for all the explanation...thanks for sharing.new#3https://www.blogger.com/profile/08502107324722814488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3497380848148392012.post-27770763612729378442012-06-22T07:48:19.218-04:002012-06-22T07:48:19.218-04:00I LOVE my wives!I LOVE my wives!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3497380848148392012.post-58739735505817380062012-06-20T09:21:44.622-04:002012-06-20T09:21:44.622-04:00LOL Yes, I am papered. The only wife who never had...LOL Yes, I am papered. The only wife who never had a license was K, and that was more by her choice than for a lack of Bud asking. <br /><br />S and I took the last name Weiser (S has kept it, though she flirted with going back to her maiden name years ago. She decided she liked being a Weiser and having that connection, even though she was no longer legally married to Bud).<br /><br />ES never got around to changing her name. She had lots of opportunity, and I must admit, it was a sore spot with me. <br /><br />Bud always has addressed mail to K with the last name Weiser, though she has never actually legally been a Weiser. She likes her last name, mostly because it is a good name for a performer. Now if Bud had a more musical sounding name, she would have changed her name in a heartbeat! LOLOlder and Weiserhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00201486776769991800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3497380848148392012.post-60204953759546315902012-06-20T09:10:24.909-04:002012-06-20T09:10:24.909-04:00How lovely to see you, all three of you! I'm ...How lovely to see you, all three of you! I'm impressed. <br />Older and weiser you let us know who was "papered" and who wasn't except in your case. And now I'm dying to know. Do you have "papers"?<br /><br />I'm afraid S will have to learn to accept some help, and more as time goes on. As we get older we lose flexibility and then need help. I don't normally like to be touched much (some people are, I'm afraid to say I'm not one) but I learned through Ron that after awhile, fortunately, dignity flies out the window. <br /><br />Nothing was so bad as being a quad though. I had a friend who was a quad since age 2 and the process for dressing, going to bed, having a shower, and especially going to toilet was horrendous. I don't know how anyone tolerates it, but you have no choice. This friend worked, too, and paid for her own attendant. The state wouldn't help unless she quit work. Go figure. I thank God every day for many things, and not being in that condition is one of them. <br /><br />Well that was off topic. Except for the forget the dignity part. S, let others do a little something for you. It makes THEM feel better. You are depriving Bud, D, K of the opportunity to perform some good karma. It gives them pleasure. <br /><br />Thanks again so much for the picture.Border Colliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02542207751598651331noreply@blogger.com